50 Questions to ask Your Partner to Know them Well Today

It is not really a strong relationship if you do not know your partner well. It takes time. But sometimes even when it has been long enough, there would be plenty of things you would not know about your partner. It is a given that you have to be a Mr-know-it-all. From their cute little habits to their worst regret, you should know everything!

But how can you do that? Well, you can begin by asking them these fifty questions. 

50 questions to ask your partner to know them better today

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1.     What is the most embarrassing thing you did ever? 
2.     What is your worst regret? 
3.     Have you ever hurt somebody? If you did, do you regret it? 
4.     What’s this one secret you have not told anybody? 
5.     Money or happiness? What matters the most? 
6.     What makes you feel alive? 
7.     What is that one thing you said to somebody that you wished you never said?
8.     What has been your greatest blessing in disguise?
9.     If you could go back in time, and undo one thing. What would it be? 
10. What do you consider worth not forgiving?
11. Do you listen to your heart or head while making decisions? 
12. What was your first impression when you met me? 
13. Have you been completely honest with me? 
14. What is that one thing that you have never done? 
15. Where do you see yourselves in five years?
16. What kind of life do you desire?
17. What do you do when you encounter a failure? What is your response mechanism? 
18. What are your financial priorities?
19. What is that one thing you consider special about yourself?
20. Do you think you have some perceptions that are not righteous, to begin with?
21. How do you respond to the mistakes you made?
22. What is your favorite memory?
23. What is your least favorite memory? 
24. Who is the person you trust the most with your life? 
25. Do you have any habits you would like to change?
26. Do you feel learning has an end?
27. What were your major turning points in life?
28. What is the story of your life?
29. When have you been your most vulnerable self?
30. How have you changed in the past five years?
31. Who are the people you regret acquainting yourself with?
32. What is that one book or one quote that changed your life? 
33. What is that one thing you cannot ever forget?
34. What is the most challenging setback you ever encountered?
35. What would you do if you would be the last person left in the world?
36. How do you feel about me?
37. Who do you idealize in history?
38. What is the great lesson you learned in your past relationships?
39. If you had the chance to talk to your future self, what advice would you give them?
40. What is that one piece of advice you give others but do not follow yourself? (Knowing that you must)
    

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41. What is that one thing you want to forget?
42. How do you find yourself changed? And what changed you?
43. What’s your opinion about friendship?
44. Are you someone who likes space, or likes to be held on no matter what you say to the other person?
45. What is that one thing you wish you could do like others?
46. When was the last time you cried? And why did you cry?
47. What is the one thing you are most proud of yourself?
48. Do you ever regret not standing up for yourself or others when you had a chance? 
49. What has high school been for you, a nightmare or a daydream?
50. What are you most insecure about?

Lastly,

I hope these questions help you know your partner better. But always remember, knowing someone is always a journey that can never end. Every day you cover distances, and every day is a baby step towards uncovering all the layers of them. So be patient, make communication your priority and that would be enough. 

Hey, do you think you know your partner better? Feel free to share your opinions and stories in the comment section.